He’s gone to Vegas on a Bachelors trip? 10 tips to help you keep calm!
Ok, so one would obviously write about what they know right… Well in this case, that is completely wrong. I don’t actually have the slightest clue on how to give advice on this one, but it is currently happening for me right now (and not a weekend trip, but a 9 day trip!?), and I am hoping this list has the desired results in keeping me calm, as well as you!
I will start by saying that the guy (or girl or whoever) in your life that is in Vegas right now is having the time of their life. They have gone there to Party. They have gone there to explore. They have gone there for the bragging rights and to spend more cash than usual on a holiday. They have gone there to get away from it all, and as Vegas has that extra “What happens in Vegas…” they want you and everyone else to believe they are up to no good. They are going to be distracted and on another time zone. And they are going to be piss-drunk most of the time. So without further ado, let’s begin:-
Keep to your time zone and let them keep to theirs. Continue to say “Good Morning” and “Good Night” as a rule.
No need for a constant update. Once their initial excitement wears off, they will message you or call you with updates when they can. No pressure from your side.
Don’t keep checking his mate’s social media pages to see if you can get ideas on what he is doing #stalking.
Don’t keep checking social media pages to see if you can catch a glimpse of him in any photos (who me??!).
Keep yourself distracted: - Exercise, cook, read, movies, have your own party(ies), clean etc. You get my drift.
Know that you are not the only person who has ever had anxiety about your significant other going over to “Sin City” for a party. You are not crazy. With this in mind, how about creating a "Stag Support Group" on whatsapp with all the other girls.
And chances are he has gone with a group of mates (even your mates) who all know he is in a relationship and respect that. The single guys will be the ones with more emphasis on them.
Don’t text fight / argue as he “hasn’t given you enough attention” or said goodnight. You don’t want to be the bad one here and regret it when it’s all over.
Yes, it will all be over soon. This is one week in your life. #breathe.
The last tip should be the easiest. Trust your partner. And ultimately, if something does go down in Vegas and you find out, then it was probably for the best as you deserve someone stronger anyways.
Sounds easy huh!? Ha! Let me know how it goes! I have 7 days left and counting…